The short answer
Yes. Avoid sex from the first tingling until sores fully heal, use condoms between outbreaks, and consider daily suppressive antivirals, which lower the chance of passing herpes on. Telling your partner lets you make decisions together. Your doctor can also advise about herpes and pregnancy.
Herpes can spread even without visible sores, but the risk is much lower when you:
- Abstain during outbreaks and warning symptoms
- Use condoms consistently
- Take suppressive therapy if advised
If you are pregnant or planning pregnancy, tell your doctor so the end of pregnancy can be planned safely. See genital herpes.
Answered by Dami Women's Clinic (다미산부인과의원), Yeouido, Seoul · Dr. Ko Sang-hyun, OB/GYN. General information, not a diagnosis. Emergencies in Korea: call 119. Medical disclaimer · International Patient Center